Why is Love so scary? Why do I fear falling in Love? Is it because I'm afraid of getting hurt? I sit around hoping I will find a woman to Love, someone who will Love me. But, once I found a woman, I'm always so afraid that it won't work out. Plus, I have been single so long and have had such bad "luck" with women that, now that I have someone in my life, I can't help but wonder why she likes me.