Why is it that almost all of the online dating help you find is for women? Like this article on CNN... How many women out there actually need dating advice? What about all of us guys? I don't know the actual numbers, but I'm pretty sure the ratio of single men to single women is pretty high. I would even guess 2, maybe 3 single men to 1 single woman. So, it shouldn't be difficult for a single woman to get a date.
And, while I'm on the subject of dating advice... The above mentioned article talks about certain dating "laws" that should broken. All of the dating laws, rules (or whatever you want to call them) are negotiable. In my opinion, they're not set in stone. For example, the rule about not dating co-workers. There are a lot of variables to consider. Do you both work in the same department? Do you work in the same part of the building or even on the same floor? How often do you see each other during work? How often do you see each other outside work? HOWEVER, there are no exceptions to the rule about dating a direct supervisor or subordinate. DON'T DO IT!
It also talks about Snooping. And, basically, says that snooping on your mate is okay as long as snooping isn't part of your relationship main objective and "...if you're normally normal, but have a big, fat, sick, twisting feeling in your gut and he's not giving you the answers you need..." I sort of agree with that. Except for one thing, if you suspect your partner of cheating, then get out of the relationship. That is, unless you always have that feeling with everyone you've ever dated.
And, then there's part about breaking the Don't Go To Bed Angry law. "And which would you rather -- spend all night crying, rehashing your silly argument and beginning your new day with gruesome circles under your eyes? Or pass out upset, have a cathartic dream, and subsequently wake up ready to make up?" Going to bed angry is not healthy. How many times have you tried going to sleep when there's something bugging you? I don't know about you, but if I'm upset about something, I have a hard time getting to sleep.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
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